Next month, I am supposed to be going on a white water rafting/camping trip for something like four nights, five days, or thereabouts. It will be with Clint and a handful of other people, and I’ve been really looking forward to it the last couple of months. I love rafting, and I love camping, and I even love being with Clint, so what’s not to look forward to?
I’m having a minor melt-down about it right now. My brain is going into over-drive, and my heart starts racing and I break into a cold sweat and I keep on tapping my fingernails on the nearest noisy surface and chewing on my lip.
One of the issues, I think, is that I’ve never been a real big fan of my body. My arms, no matter how skinny or fat I’ve been, have always felt awkward and huge and ugly. My legs, which were nice and tanned once upon a time before I was oh, twelve or so, are painfully, blindingly white and they terrify even ME to look at.
I haven’t got any decent, comfortable, appropriate rafting or camping type clothing. Shorts and tank tops would be fabulous to wear, but…well, we’ve been over the reasons I won’t wear those already. I would be fine, I think, with some light-weight capris and somewhat baggy T-shirts but…I haven’t got any of those.
I have exactly half of a bathing suit.
The bottom half.
I do own clothes, of course. Like, one pair of nice jeans, several pairs of cotton lounge pants, a ton of pajama bottoms, and a single pair of silky pajama shorts. None of which would be real great rafting apparel. Well, the silky shorts would be okay, except that I would look and feel like Petunia Pig or the equivalent in them.
What’s the equivalent of Petunia Pig?
Not the point (What’s pigs got to do, got to do with it…or is that ‘love’? Hmm…).
Another issue is one that only girls will really understand, and so for the sake of the variety of readers that pass through here, we’ll skip on to my issue with sunshine.
The whiteness that puts people’s eyes out, remember. I. Can’t. Get. Tan.
Just on my legs, mind you. My face, neck, arms, and feet absorb sunlight and turn a nice brown color all summer long, but my legs do this obnoxious light-reflecting trick and remain pasty-pale all year. I’ve tried pretty much everything to get them to match my feet and arms, only to discover that no matter how “realistic” a fake tan CAN look….wow, they totally never look realistic.
Last summer, I wasted hours and hours and hours trying to get even the hint of a tan on my legs.
My legs reject color. End of story.
There’s also the problem of what to do with my stupid, stupid hair (as you’ve recently heard about). It’s not that I care so much if it looks exactly like I’ve been camping for a few days, but more that it gets in the way and in my eyes and up my nose and I hate it, I hate it, I hate it!
I do own a hat, though. Which is a zillion times better than the last big trip I went on with NO hat and only a black bandana to cover my bad hair with. When we got the pictures back from that trip, I heard several comments about how I resembled a cancer patient.
Why would somebody take a picture of me like that?!
Possibly the biggest worry I’ve got, and probably the only even semi-legitimate one, is that it will be the first time I’m away from my kiddo for longer than a couple of hours. He’ll be with his grandma, and I know he’ll be fine, but what about ME? What the heck am I going to do, not having to change a single diaper for four whole days? How am I going to survive without E’s happy little babbling noises he makes while he devours a remote control or dismantles my kitchen?
I think that I probably ought to take a deep breath, relax, purchase some good outdoor-type clothing (and tanning lotion…and maybe get liposuction), and try to enjoy the trip.
I can handle that, right?
Coming Soon: A post where I take a look at how sick it is that I feel so terrified of relaxing now that I have a kid (okay, probably not, but I’m not ruling it out).